There's nothing wrong with comparing our prior experiences with our current ones. Everyone does it all the time, every day. That's how our brains are designed. Why can't you enjoy a new relationship while still cherishing a previous one? A new relationship will inherently be different than your relationship with Sam, because you've been shaped by your relationship with Sam and you'd be in a relationship with someone new. You don't have to lose Sam, you'll always carry her with you in your heart and mind moving forward. Perhaps instead of seeing things through a lens of nothing will ever be as good as it was (a good/bad dichotomy), try to see things through the lens of how good it is now. Not judging if it's better or worse, simply accepting that it's just different. It isn't unfair to the new person, provided you're honest about it and they know that you are still nursing the wounds from losing Sam. One of the best ways for us to grow is to share ourselves with others.
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No more Mr Nice Stimbo?
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No more Mr Nice Stimbo? - by Cyberman - January 29, 2013 at 6:07 pm
RE: No more Mr Nice Stimbo? - by Faith No More - January 29, 2013 at 6:22 pm
RE: No more Mr Nice Stimbo? - by Napoléon - January 29, 2013 at 6:27 pm
RE: No more Mr Nice Stimbo? - by Cyberman - January 29, 2013 at 6:28 pm
RE: No more Mr Nice Stimbo? - by John V - January 29, 2013 at 6:37 pm
RE: No more Mr Nice Stimbo? - by Cinjin - January 29, 2013 at 6:41 pm
RE: No more Mr Nice Stimbo? - by Cyberman - January 29, 2013 at 6:51 pm
RE: No more Mr Nice Stimbo? - by salty - January 29, 2013 at 7:36 pm
RE: No more Mr Nice Stimbo? - by Violet - January 29, 2013 at 7:57 pm
RE: No more Mr Nice Stimbo? - by Cyberman - January 29, 2013 at 8:05 pm
RE: No more Mr Nice Stimbo? - by Violet - January 29, 2013 at 8:10 pm
RE: No more Mr Nice Stimbo? - by Cyberman - January 29, 2013 at 8:13 pm
RE: No more Mr Nice Stimbo? - by Rayaan - January 29, 2013 at 8:15 pm
RE: No more Mr Nice Stimbo? - by Cyberman - January 29, 2013 at 8:23 pm
RE: No more Mr Nice Stimbo? - by Nine - January 29, 2013 at 8:28 pm
RE: No more Mr Nice Stimbo? - by Cyberman - January 29, 2013 at 10:41 pm
RE: No more Mr Nice Stimbo? - by Gilgamesh - January 29, 2013 at 11:11 pm
RE: No more Mr Nice Stimbo? - by Violet - January 29, 2013 at 11:58 pm
RE: No more Mr Nice Stimbo? - by Minimalist - January 29, 2013 at 8:45 pm
RE: No more Mr Nice Stimbo? - by Cyberman - January 29, 2013 at 8:57 pm
RE: No more Mr Nice Stimbo? - by Angrboda - January 29, 2013 at 8:58 pm
RE: No more Mr Nice Stimbo? - by Annik - January 29, 2013 at 10:57 pm
RE: No more Mr Nice Stimbo? - by Cyberman - February 2, 2013 at 10:05 am
RE: No more Mr Nice Stimbo? - by John V - February 2, 2013 at 10:35 am
RE: No more Mr Nice Stimbo? - by Rhizomorph13 - January 29, 2013 at 11:12 pm
RE: No more Mr Nice Stimbo? - by Kayenneh - January 30, 2013 at 1:32 am
RE: No more Mr Nice Stimbo? - by Ryantology - January 30, 2013 at 2:51 am
RE: No more Mr Nice Stimbo? - by Rayaan - January 30, 2013 at 5:46 pm
RE: No more Mr Nice Stimbo? - by Jackalope - January 30, 2013 at 11:55 pm
Re: No more Mr Nice Stimbo? - by fr0d0 - January 31, 2013 at 3:03 am
RE: No more Mr Nice Stimbo? - by Cyberman - February 2, 2013 at 11:05 am
RE: No more Mr Nice Stimbo? - by John V - February 2, 2013 at 11:20 am
RE: No more Mr Nice Stimbo? - by Cyberman - February 2, 2013 at 11:55 am
RE: No more Mr Nice Stimbo? - by John V - February 2, 2013 at 2:02 pm
RE: No more Mr Nice Stimbo? - by Cyberman - February 2, 2013 at 2:37 pm
RE: No more Mr Nice Stimbo? - by festive1 - February 2, 2013 at 11:51 am
RE: No more Mr Nice Stimbo? - by John V - February 2, 2013 at 11:56 am
RE: No more Mr Nice Stimbo? - by Cyberman - February 2, 2013 at 12:09 pm
RE: No more Mr Nice Stimbo? - by festive1 - February 2, 2013 at 12:36 pm
RE: No more Mr Nice Stimbo? - by Cyberman - February 2, 2013 at 12:49 pm
RE: No more Mr Nice Stimbo? - by festive1 - February 2, 2013 at 2:23 pm
RE: No more Mr Nice Stimbo? - by John V - February 2, 2013 at 3:40 pm
RE: No more Mr Nice Stimbo? - by LastPoet - February 15, 2013 at 4:14 am
RE: No more Mr Nice Stimbo? - by Violet - February 15, 2013 at 11:40 am
RE: No more Mr Nice Stimbo? - by Cyberman - February 2, 2013 at 4:04 pm
RE: No more Mr Nice Stimbo? - by Tiberius - February 2, 2013 at 9:04 pm
RE: No more Mr Nice Stimbo? - by Cyberman - February 2, 2013 at 9:50 pm
RE: No more Mr Nice Stimbo? - by Tea Earl Grey Hot - February 2, 2013 at 9:07 pm
RE: No more Mr Nice Stimbo? - by DeistPaladin - February 2, 2013 at 11:16 pm
RE: No more Mr Nice Stimbo? - by Rayaan - February 2, 2013 at 11:50 pm
RE: No more Mr Nice Stimbo? - by Cyberman - February 2, 2013 at 11:36 pm
RE: No more Mr Nice Stimbo? - by Angrboda - February 2, 2013 at 11:44 pm
RE: No more Mr Nice Stimbo? - by Angrboda - February 15, 2013 at 3:13 am
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