RE: People Leave... Then What?
February 12, 2013 at 11:42 pm
(This post was last modified: February 12, 2013 at 11:45 pm by justin.)
The same way you did last time. Assuming you made good judgement based on his character and actions. You can not control what other people think, do, or say. You also can't conclude that because one person did this one thing that you one did something wrong and two that the probability of this happening again will increase due to this(fear). Don't let that fear consume you because it isn't from, what it seems based from, a rational premise or true premise if you like. My advice is self reflection. Invest in you and your intrest. Let them consume you because it is actually giving less time for you brain to produce memories (connected to relevant things that you would or did associate with that relationship) to asorb hormones that it has began mass producing to tell you body to kick it into overdrive and find a sutible mate that can match or top the one you just had and make corrections in judgement to increase the probability that this won't happen again. (How to trust etc.) Socrates said a "unexamined life is a life not worth living" so while you may not be able to grasp a better understanding in your mates you can grasp (always) a better understanding in yourself which will give you a deeper insight on the principles of thruth and goodness (socrates again). Get busy, think, learn, and try new things to break these barriers that these things usually lead us to build. It will get better. I hope this helped little oh and also if you wanna know about how we subconsciously select mates. Look up a lil social dynamics and jump in this helped me alot with seeing through the shit and fixing my relationship to a much happier place.
