RE: People Leave... Then What?
February 13, 2013 at 5:01 am
(This post was last modified: February 13, 2013 at 5:09 am by rexbeccarox.)
(February 13, 2013 at 4:03 am)cato123 Wrote:(February 13, 2013 at 3:06 am)fr0d0 Wrote: Hope you don't mind me commenting. The brick wall thing is the biggest challenge isn't it. With what life deals with you our instinct is to close down, where to be healthy we should remain open as before. Lost innocence seems to equal restricted lives.
I think it's harder for women too. If you're that type of personality that looks for a mate to provide a backbone to a family, then possessiveness is a natural desire.
There is so much wrong with this that I'll leave my full reply until tomorrow. "Lost innocence seems to equal restricted lives." What the fuck does this mean? You watch Dr. Phil everyday, don't you?
Cato, I think he's talking about baggage...
Fr0d0, I'm not the type of woman who is either, a. possessive, or b. looking for a backbone. I have one of my own, thanks. Actually, it's really interesting you would make that assumption.
Nope, marriage isn't exactly a goal of mine, and I definitely don't want kids. Your point about the brick wall is a good one, though. Thanks for your reply.
Creed Wrote:Personally, I DID 'cheat' on a girlfriend once but for certain reasons. She was becoming very domineering and controlling and was not respecting my desires in any context. Everything was about her, her, her. She felt herself superior to me and that being with me was a favor to me from her. I disagreed. I had sex with another girl.
Creed, may I ask why you didn't break up with your girlfriend instead of cheating? It sounds like your relationship was doomed anyway...
Gallifrey Wrote:I've never cheated, I just don't understand the urge. I've been propositioned many times while in a relationship, I've never even considered saying yes.
Yep... I'm the same way. I've never cheated, and I've never really even given cheating a thought. Also, the only cheating I know of from an ex was the one I pointed to earlier. Much like Creed's story, though, our relationship was on its way down a urinal at a campground. Yay for non-cheaters!
