(February 24, 2013 at 10:35 am)apophenia Wrote:(February 24, 2013 at 9:09 am)whateverist Wrote: I also recognized a kind of revulsion in myself toward gay male sex which I knew couldn't be anything other than a culturally absorbed bias.
How do you know this to be the case?
Of course I can't know it in any ultimate, philosophy-worthy sense. But in the seat-of-the-pants way in which I make most decisions in life, I felt sure enough to act on it.
The one unexpected downside of my decision is that I am no longer as turned on by the thought of lesbian sex as I had been. Don't get me wrong. It is still a pleasant picture .. double servings of all the good stuff along with women who like what I do. But the taboo edginess is gone.
