(April 23, 2013 at 10:24 am)whateverist Wrote: Coming in late here but I agree w/ summer.
Anyone who cultivates their appearance/behavior/persona in order to be attractive to the maximum number of sexual partners is not being smart about it. They only decrease the likelihood of finding a satisfying relationship. Man or woman.
I attribute being much more satisfied than not with my sexual/relationship partners (whatever problems we had) with being myself regardless of what others tell me 'men want'. If they aren't strong enough to put up with me, they don't deserve the softer side of me either.
I don't want to be found attractive by all men...just the right ones. And the trick to that is knowing what you actually need and want - not what society says you should need and want.