I understand where you are coming from, but for myself, I don't rightly care. I've been called a lot worse. "Ungodly", that has to be my favorite dumb thing to call me. I know where they're going with that, but truly, it is rather meaningless. I've been called "heathen" (mostly by my mom), who expected me to be insulted by it. It did not work. That's such an old-fashioned word, don't you think. I'll stick with atheist, if for no other reason,than as has been said, because it ticks them off. 
“To terrify children with the image of hell, to consider women an inferior creation—is that good for the world?”
― Christopher Hitchens
"That fear first created the gods is perhaps as true as anything so brief could be on so great a subject". - George Santayana
"If this is the best God can do, I'm not impressed". - George Carlin
― Christopher Hitchens
"That fear first created the gods is perhaps as true as anything so brief could be on so great a subject". - George Santayana
"If this is the best God can do, I'm not impressed". - George Carlin
