Agree entirely - but what is relevant? The problem is not as easy to solve as it appears and we end up back at the OP's point which is essentially the relativity of reality.
I have to say I do not know the answer to this other than at some instinctive level that is hard to put into words.
I have to say I do not know the answer to this other than at some instinctive level that is hard to put into words.