The question of the nature of morality, inside religion and outside it, is a topic that comes up about once every five minutes on the forum. And the discussion has a tendency to get heated. I suggest searching for relevant recent threads, or asking a knowledgable (and caring) regular to point some examples out for you, or start a new thread on it outside the introduction section of the forum. (One just recently wrapped up, so interest levels might not be optimum, but you'll usually get a few takers.)
Given that you've indicated you don't want my opinion as a religious person, I'll capitalize on the excuse and use it as a pretext to take a powder and blow off the question.
Enjoy the forum.