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[Fidel_Castronaut]

Divorce shouldn't even be a thought since there's a child involved and there's no abuse involved.

That's the worst advice possible for someone to give.

Staying with a spouse in a relationship that has no love nor commitment will do nothing positive for your children.

Sticking together "because we've got kids" is never a good out becuase you're not dealing with the cause of the relationship issues in the first place. All you'll have is two parents growing distant and putting a facade on in front of the kids, whilst the kids will just be thinking "why are my parents still together? Why do they argue and act so weird around each other all the time?"

Kids see a lot more than most parents think, and they can also pick up on social cues and body langauge very well, especially when its their parents.

In this instance, much better to seperate and love your kids without the baggage of an unworkable failing relationship than to love them through a front for the sake of appearances.

This is NOT advice BTW to the OP, just my 2 cents.