what is Happiness …??!!
October 18, 2013 at 5:38 pm
(This post was last modified: October 18, 2013 at 6:32 pm by HUMAN BRAIN.)
Monitoring the journey of ' feeling ' inside ourselves, it seems to be that , the internal self receives feeling , (good or bad) through an imaginary ' gate ' , which is opened partially or completely according to ;
(1) Repeatability ; we may be dazzled when seeing a luxurious palace or car , for the first time , and envy their owner, who may be busy with his own problems , and may not receive any feeling when he looks at them ; so , the amount of our received enjoy is much higher than the owner. The same situation exists in relations which are based on sex.
(2) Possession ; the nature of all living beings is to have a 'full open' feeling gate , while pursuing or hunting a 'difficult' object; a man may pay money and effort to get a woman who may be less beautiful than his wife, - the same for my cat turns crazy when seeing an insect , but he almost accept the expensive fish or chicken which he knows that they are prepared for him' .
(3) Relativity ; a poor guy well gain a great amount of enjoy , when he eat a cheap sandwich, which you may loose appetite when watching it. When we pass by a very sick miserable guy sleeping in street, and may have disability or mutation in some of his organs, we feel a great sympathy for him, and this scene may turn us annoyed or upset for the rest of the day. this is our share of bad feelings , but , the miserable man used to deal with his case , and rarely to receive bad feeling about that , moreover , he may be enjoying a cheap food , which is difficult to be available for him.
(4) expectation ; that always produce passive effect… , when expecting to receive pain, your 'worry' duplicates the received amount of suffering. The same when expecting to receive some enjoy, the feeling gate will not 'fully opened' as in the same case, if you were surprised…
** The conclusion is that, it is worthless to be in a situation that people consider ' happy' , but to receive feelings of happiness. The most furious enemies of happiness are , worry about the future, regret what you had lost before and thinking of what you can not have…..
** It is worth to be mentioned that , the majority of the 'third world' people are happy..!!!!!!, although all those low conditions and problems surrounding them. After studying their 'astonishing' case , I found out the secret of this 'miracle'…, their Islam religion teaches them that ;
(" all amounts of ' happiness' and ' misery ' were decided for every human , 'before' creating the universe, so , you must pursue well in your work, but do neither worry about the coming future , nor regret what you had lost before " ).
(1) Repeatability ; we may be dazzled when seeing a luxurious palace or car , for the first time , and envy their owner, who may be busy with his own problems , and may not receive any feeling when he looks at them ; so , the amount of our received enjoy is much higher than the owner. The same situation exists in relations which are based on sex.
(2) Possession ; the nature of all living beings is to have a 'full open' feeling gate , while pursuing or hunting a 'difficult' object; a man may pay money and effort to get a woman who may be less beautiful than his wife, - the same for my cat turns crazy when seeing an insect , but he almost accept the expensive fish or chicken which he knows that they are prepared for him' .
(3) Relativity ; a poor guy well gain a great amount of enjoy , when he eat a cheap sandwich, which you may loose appetite when watching it. When we pass by a very sick miserable guy sleeping in street, and may have disability or mutation in some of his organs, we feel a great sympathy for him, and this scene may turn us annoyed or upset for the rest of the day. this is our share of bad feelings , but , the miserable man used to deal with his case , and rarely to receive bad feeling about that , moreover , he may be enjoying a cheap food , which is difficult to be available for him.
(4) expectation ; that always produce passive effect… , when expecting to receive pain, your 'worry' duplicates the received amount of suffering. The same when expecting to receive some enjoy, the feeling gate will not 'fully opened' as in the same case, if you were surprised…
** The conclusion is that, it is worthless to be in a situation that people consider ' happy' , but to receive feelings of happiness. The most furious enemies of happiness are , worry about the future, regret what you had lost before and thinking of what you can not have…..
** It is worth to be mentioned that , the majority of the 'third world' people are happy..!!!!!!, although all those low conditions and problems surrounding them. After studying their 'astonishing' case , I found out the secret of this 'miracle'…, their Islam religion teaches them that ;
(" all amounts of ' happiness' and ' misery ' were decided for every human , 'before' creating the universe, so , you must pursue well in your work, but do neither worry about the coming future , nor regret what you had lost before " ).
