Men are happier with attractive women

[A Theist]

....and be honest, if not for the physical attractiveness guys aren't going to approach a lady for conversation....and the same goes for the women too. If they don't find the guy initially attractive they're not going to give the dude a second look.

As far as woman and their attraction to men, I feel as though it generally has less to do with how you look then it does about other qualities. If a chick is just looking for a hookup then yes, how you physically look will be important. But in a relationship most women are looking for some swagger, charm, confidence, status. Essentially as men we have other qualities that can override our physical looks in the eyes of women.

hmmm...the swagger and the confidence are part of the attraction for the women. But I still have to say that it's the physical attraction that first catches their eye. On the other hand, despite the initial attraction, if the guy doesn't show swagger, confidence and charm, like you said, then the woman will quickly lose interest. As far as status though, I think a woman is more interested in a secure life with the guy she chooses for her self. I also think that a woman loves a man who can make her laugh.