So I got in trouble

[Drich]

Yeah you can. Its called humility.

That is called false humility. To say you x when you feel y is a lie. To do so in the name of humility, is false humility.

You know she's right.

I know I am not here to hurt people's feelings. At the same time I am not here to coddle you all either. I know she is right in that if I eliminate or at least minimize what I say (whether I think it wrong or not) that could potentially hurt feelings unnecessarily then it is my obligation to do that thing. Right or wrong does not come into play here. It for me is a matter of doing my job the best I can.

You think your understanding of online etiquette overrides her understanding of gods will for your actions.

actually you have it backwards. God's will for my actions overrides everything else..
If you think my actions are out side God's will simply provide me with Book chapter and verse and I will gladly make a course correction if one is warranted.

You think you're his special asshole, pretty much, who gets away with being an asshole because its for god. Problem is, Drich, the same fulfillment a nonbeliever gets by being a dickwad, is what you get to enjoy when you're doing the same thing. Can't have something for nothing, as you teach;

Actually I see myself as a regular a-hole, there is nothing special about me.

Oh, there is one thing. I'm not easily manipulated nor do I have a problem standing behind one of my decisions. I may have framed this thread in a subservient way putting me under my wife's authority, but it was not my wife's authority that got me to apologize. She appealed to scripture, and even though I do not see a sin here I do see the need to eliminate anything I may be doing that may cause un due strife.

I would not want to be you standing in front of your god with this attitude, Drich. You either have less fear for him than you say everyone should (possibly because you think you're his special, special asshole), or you're an arrogant person whose blissfully unaware of how ridiculous he would sound to his god.

if you believe that giving someone a nick name is a sin, then please provide book chapter and verse so I may repent!

Hmm how about she go through all your posts (like you said she did anyways) and see what she has to say about your 'ministry'. Then we'll see if she thinks your time spent online 'for God' *scoffs, has been worth the time she's endured without her husband. Quite frankly, I feel bad for her. Your arrogance and selfishness is painful a world away; I shudder to know what its like for your partner.

I just read what you wrote I said: "We own and operate a business together. On average We spend 98% of our waking hours together in a small office, then go home together, eat sleep and watch tv together, then get up and do it all over again. "

Mrs Trich said:" you guys know what 'he' is like, if you can't stand him for the small amount of time he is on line with you, why in the do you think I want to spend more time with him? (She actually said hell but told me not to type it.)"