(April 9, 2014 at 7:04 pm)Chuck Wrote:(April 9, 2014 at 4:36 pm)sven Wrote: she doesn't preach or try to convert anyone, she doesn't judge other people, she swears, she's a little 'loose' (she's very pretty) she doesn't have children,....... When we met, it just so happened that we talked about religion for quite a while. It struck me that her faith seems to be at least as strong as my atheistic conviction. . ....Is she really stark raving insane? .
Are you trying to ask if it is Okay for you to pretend to give way on your atheist beliefs in order to bed her?
That has to be one of the oldest tricks in the book. Grade school level. Like joining Drama just because the girl you like is in Drama. If you do this sort of thing you really need to step up your game! (Unless you are in grade school)
Also, lying to women is bad. Try practicing at home to become more honest:
Yes, you do look fat'
'That new haircut makes you appear old'
'Why yes, I was looking at that girl's ass!'
Anyway. I had a crush on her for a while and I flat out said so. Didn't work out well. It turned out she had a boyfriend she hadn't told me about. But that was a long time ago.
Compartmentalization... Simon Moon, I like that word. It is also difficult to spell.
I think I get it. I'm not good at that, which is probably why I'm so bad at keeping secrets. Perhaps this 'handicap' is the reason I find her so hard to understand.