where does his other arm go??

[Aisha]

I would like to take this opportunity to tell everyone whom does not now: These ways of sleeping are very uncomfortable.
If I am in bed like this with my boyfriend, his arm is usually under my pillow, or I use it as my pillow.
After a while my head gets heavy though, and it is not comfortable for him. I usually get an ache in the neck.
There are other places where he can put his arm. (is not as bad as it souds :p) But nothing is comfortable enough to last.

At the beginning of our relationship we tried all these romantic sleeping positions. None of them are nice.
After about 2 weeks we gave up. Now we cuddle a little before we go to sleep, and then we each turn around and move to our own side of the bed.
That way we sleep back to back with a lot of space in the middle, it might not be the most romantic, but it is by far the best solution for a good night of sleep :p