(May 22, 2014 at 4:39 pm)BlackSwordsman Wrote: I think adoption is appropriate, why is it not? Sure I understand the having to carry it, and it seems like such a waste. It almost seems selfish to me.
(If I don't want it no one else can have it) kind of mentality but I understand the struggle.
That's probably a very easy position to take for (what I assume to be, from your avatar and username) a guy. Men don't ever have to treat pregnancy itself as a thing, since it never happens to us; fixating on just what happens after birth is skipping over all the stuff that happens before it that I gather must be quite unpleasant.
Kids don't just flop out all fine and dandy after a twenty second labor; focusing on adoption and so on might be an appealing thought for an anti-choice advocate, but let's not pretend there aren't several steps to the process you've avoided to get there.
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