Mehmet, man... you say you visit orphanages and you see the conditions those kids have to grow up in...
You would rather have a kid grow up like that, over growing up with two adoptive fathers or mothers? You are wishing those kids a worse fate than what I wish upon them.... you said it yourself, many are early smokers.... who knows what else are they doing early?....
The point is, there are many more kids in need of an adoptive family than adoptive parents searching for kids. That is why the subject of gays adopting comes about... not just gays, but even single people who want to be parents... should they be allowed to adopt, if they are willing and able? Should we leave them "in the system", or entrust them to people who'll very likely give them a proper home where they can grow up and become adults?
I say "give them a family".
Adopted kids always carry a stigma. Kids adopted by gays will carry a different stigma, but it will pass... as you probably saw in the videos I put on my last post... they do turn out as normal members of society.... those early smokers you mentioned, on the other hand, I have many doubts.
You would rather have a kid grow up like that, over growing up with two adoptive fathers or mothers? You are wishing those kids a worse fate than what I wish upon them.... you said it yourself, many are early smokers.... who knows what else are they doing early?....
The point is, there are many more kids in need of an adoptive family than adoptive parents searching for kids. That is why the subject of gays adopting comes about... not just gays, but even single people who want to be parents... should they be allowed to adopt, if they are willing and able? Should we leave them "in the system", or entrust them to people who'll very likely give them a proper home where they can grow up and become adults?
I say "give them a family".
Adopted kids always carry a stigma. Kids adopted by gays will carry a different stigma, but it will pass... as you probably saw in the videos I put on my last post... they do turn out as normal members of society.... those early smokers you mentioned, on the other hand, I have many doubts.
