I grew up in the church. My parents were very strict on the subject of sex. Movies, music...any reference to the subject was off limits. In fact, my parents were so uneasy about it they didn't even give me "the talk". I never had problems with ED, but I felt uneasy with girls if something sexual would happen...not that I didn't want it, because I did but I would feel horrible about it, and fear burning in hell. Me and my wife have an amazing sex life, however in public when ever she does anything intimate (non sexual) other than holding hands or hugging, like kissing. I get uneasy. I think because when I grew up, my parents hated seeing anyone expressing affection in public and they let me know about it. I get worried about what people will think, instead of "this is my wife, why does it matter."
What really helps me is this though: if the god of this universe created us with urges and natural attraction to a person....why would he be such a dick to condemn it to the level of burning in hell for it..Humans are programmed a certain way...it's a fact, and I don't feel guilty about that, and neither should anyone else.
What really helps me is this though: if the god of this universe created us with urges and natural attraction to a person....why would he be such a dick to condemn it to the level of burning in hell for it..Humans are programmed a certain way...it's a fact, and I don't feel guilty about that, and neither should anyone else.
