Should man rule over women for women’s own good?

[Losty]

And there are scriptures in place forbidding a husband to abuse his wife.

Do you think all abuse is physical?

The bible is remarkably silent on mental and cultural abuse, after all.

Not only that but there is still no out for women whose husbands abuse them.
Having scriptures in place that forbid abuse does nothing to protect women whose husbands choose to abuse them anyways. There is no scripture in place to allow for divorce in the case of abuse.