refuting misconceptions:1-women in Islam

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I didn't say she asked a question... I suggested you answer her argument I see plenty of argument to answer here

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Do they outnumber or even equal the number of cases where she gets less? No divorce financial rules should be based on gender.

no am not outnumbering anything i just prove that the rules of divorce or anything dont depend on gender

You haven't proven this at all. We have seen proof that the rules are indeed dependant on gender. Nothing so far says to disregard those rules. It hasn't even been pseudo-counter-balanced with an opposing (but equally sexist) divorce rule in men's disfavour that happens with equal frequency.

being more emotional has nothing to do with the things you mentioned above when you become a mother you will have more understanding of this

I am 47 years old, sonny!!! But, thanks for trying to tell me what I will be feeling, you silly young person who is not even the same gender as me and knows nothing of motherhood or parental instincts. For people who do decide to have children, of course emotions come into play, but for both. Which parent is going to be staying home and raising the kids, thus having a higher likely emotional investment/experience? I used to know a guy who really liked the idea of someday being a househusband, doing the traditionally female role of child care and cooking. He was a very good cook too, and had I ever wanted to settle down and raise a family, I would have pursued him in a serious way, but I digress.

its your freedom to choose wether to believe and do what god tells you or you refuse it but the things you see as freedom they seem like that but later things that may happen is really harmful for you and for the society(even if it didnt happen to you till now) you have to try it by yourself to know that when god forbid something its also for your own benefit

That's pretty creepy. I hope that's not what it sounds like, but before jumping to conclusions, what harmful results are you trying to blame on the three examples of exposed skin, unmarried sex and porn viewing? Also, are you saying that this harm will happen differently to women, eg resulting from the fact that your religion gives different clothing rules to women and men?

calm down scented am not attacking you we are just sharing our beliefs am not trying to force anything to you maybe the things am telling you now you will discover it later and the same about anything you tell me

Calm down yourself, buddy. I'll be as calm or not calm as I feel like. You are telling me that your imaginary god is forcing this on me. If your god wants to tell me something, he can tell me directly. He can instantly talk to my brain in a way that I can't help but to believe in him. Then I can consider whether it's worth following the rules he (not you or your silly book) tells me about to avoid the after death punishment he threatens me with.

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thats what am talking about http://www.timesonline.co.uk/tol/news/sc...175612.ece
not the difference in body

How would a difference in the brain change what clothes they should wear on their bodies? Also, it should be noted that whilst these differences in brain might hold true for the most part, they do not necessarily define all of each sex Further, one might note that what differences there are in the brains of men and women are largely due to what the society of humans value in male and female humans (and thusly: helped them carry on their genes). In other words: one would (given enough time) find entirely different results in a matriarchal society of humans... and similarly: other species' male and female thought patterns would reflect the attributes that helped them reproduce.

Also... I think that

While there are no sex differences in general intelligence, women tend to have stronger visual memories, while men are more proficient at visualising objects when rotated in space. It has been suggested that this may reflect the way most men like to navigate by reading maps, while many women prefer to remember landmarks

Is utterly ridiculous. Just where in our evolutionary chain would maps have entered into it so as to make those men able to read maps more capable of reproduction, or more likely to carry on their genes? Also mo3... please not that these are tendencies, not certainties for male and female humans Ultimately, the differences in male and female human brains is no more significant than the differences between the brain of a male human and another one, and likewise of female humans.

I should have you know: I am a vehement opponent of equality... but I simply can't see any of this as being even remotely significant past slight biological interest... and is hardly enough of a change so as to make one person wear different clothes than another. If you don't clothe people differently because of a difference in the body or brain... then by what do you judge them to wear different clothes?