Mo, it sounds like you are saying that it's ok for men to rape their wives because otherwise the wives are bad luck and you think that wiferape shows them respect? What the fuck? Also, now you say that the husband gets to be in charge of her emotions too during sex. He takes care of both his own and hers. I guess she is too weak and stupid and emotional to take charge of her own brain. Pathetic that you believe shit like this.
I'm really shitty at giving kudos and rep. That's because I would be inconsistent in remembering to do them, and also I don't really want it to show if any favouritism is happening. Even worse would be inconsistencies causing false favouritisms to show. So, fuck it. Just assume that I've given you some good rep and a number of kudos, and everyone should be happy...