RE: so much pain
October 1, 2014 at 10:07 pm
(This post was last modified: October 1, 2014 at 10:08 pm by SteelCurtain.)
(October 1, 2014 at 7:55 pm)ShaMan Wrote:(October 1, 2014 at 7:49 pm)MusicLovingAtheist Wrote: In our world getting self confirmation is very hard.That's because it doesn't come from the world, it comes from the self. I hope you are able to heal your anxieties.
This.
MLA, you have got to stop wallowing in it. Stop playing the victim and self actualize. Friends aren't going to happen just because you want them to.
You are socially awkward. Okay. Tons of people are. I have a friend who is the most socially awkward person I have ever met. He says the weirdest things at the most inappropriate times, but that makes him unique to me, and it he owns it. It is endearing, one of the many reasons I call him a friend.
Put yourself out there, knowing that the worst that can happen is that you continue to feel lonely and rejected, but the best that can happen is that you could forge a friendship. A real friendship, where you can be you and someone likes you for that.
"There remain four irreducible objections to religious faith: that it wholly misrepresents the origins of man and the cosmos, that because of this original error it manages to combine the maximum servility with the maximum of solipsism, that it is both the result and the cause of dangerous sexual repression, and that it is ultimately grounded on wish-thinking." ~Christopher Hitchens, god is not Great
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