I always prefer to think of god as being responsible for their loved one getting the injury or illness that requires surgery in the first place. Hey, if you're a Christian, it makes sense; you can't give him all the credit for the good and then dismiss all the blame when bad stuff happens.
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"If you cling to something as the absolute truth and you are caught in it, when the truth comes in person to knock on your door you will refuse to let it in." ~ Siddhartha Gautama
"If you cling to something as the absolute truth and you are caught in it, when the truth comes in person to knock on your door you will refuse to let it in." ~ Siddhartha Gautama