Differing degrees of rape?

[Brakeman]

Depends on the woman, I'd say, and experiences she has had in past.
I'd also say it equally depends upon the man, and what experience he has had in past.
Extenuating circumstances/ environmental factors also matter. I dont think there is a black or white, you're right, based on outside perspective.
But inside perspective that small act could be life shattering.
If you woke up tonight, Brakeman, to another mouth around your piece, how would you react and feel?
Now imagine how you would react or feel if you'd been woken up that very same way when you were a child, and was raped? Would you not feel a totally different feeling the next day?

Yes, those circumstances would make me feel different.

That's what I was saying too!!!!

I think we are arguing overtop each other's head. I don't think You, Jenny, or Losty, have said anything I disagree with other than wording to the effect that ALL male rape victims are traumatized. I also felt that Losty was just a little too certain what men think and feel despite her lack of firsthand experience.

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"How do you know how men think?"
Where in my post did I say I know how men think?
I could ask you the same question.

uhmm ...

If you're ever actually raped and you decide you liked it or it didn't affect you, so be it, don't call the cops. But don't say this kind of shit. It dehumanizes real male rape victims and it's disgusting.
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If you mean why don't mean get upset about rape, they do, they just don't say it because society tells them if they don't like it or if they feel violated that strips away their manliness.
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It's comments like these that make male victims afraid to report to the police. It's comments like these that make them completely internalize their pain and suffering.

The problem with the way you phrase things is that talk like that makes some men feel like feeling violated by rape makes them less of a man.