To answer a question or better yet to defend a person or position to the point of a-hole-ery simply means one is passionate about a person or position.. Is being passionate wrong? Only to those who like to maintain a control over everyone and everything they connect with.
In truth not everyone can disconnect emotion from something they hold close to their hearts. If you are one that can, then you should also be able to disconnect the passion others put on a given topic as well.
It is the diversity that is in all of us that makes progressive people want to interact and connect with others. To make an appeal to have all of us fall in by labeling those who don't a-holes is actually doing what it is you say you do t want others to do to you.
In truth not everyone can disconnect emotion from something they hold close to their hearts. If you are one that can, then you should also be able to disconnect the passion others put on a given topic as well.
It is the diversity that is in all of us that makes progressive people want to interact and connect with others. To make an appeal to have all of us fall in by labeling those who don't a-holes is actually doing what it is you say you do t want others to do to you.