Need some rather personal advice

[CapnAwesome]

You know, I think dating sites are probably the way to go for you. I don't use them myself, but my younger brother met his wife on one (okcupid) and there are lots of people I know who use them to meet people. Also I feel like you are far less likely to meet someone super weird as a male. They aren't nearly as fishy as they were ten years ago. They've become part of the mainstream and you can lay out all this stuff as part of your profile so there isn't any surprises to the person you meet. Plus you can talk to someone online via skype or something so they can get to know you as a person before thinking of you as somebody who is disabled. If you aren't a superficial person, and somehow I assume that you are not, then your dating pool can be quite large. Just bite down and pay whatever charge (not really that major of an expense mostly) and try it out. That would be my recommendation.