Need some rather personal advice

[Jenny A]

Kevin,

I understand completely why you would want more. But I'm not at all sure how that can be arranged though I am going to take a stab at it.

I think that if you used a on-line dating service and disclosed your condition you would not get many, if any responses to your profile or inquiries. If you didn't disclose your condition and sprung it on a first date, the results would not be good either. So I would forget the dating sites.

I suggest you get to know women you admire on-line for their brains and personalities on non-dating sites. Once you have established mutual liking, you might then explain your circumstances. With luck, she'll already be hooked enough on you to be willing to give the physical you a try. What you should not do is court her (a very old fashioned word) until you have made your disclosure. What you should do, is make very good friends with her first.

Now, don't take any of my advice as the word of all woman or the best possible advice. I've only described how I imagine you might have caught me were I younger and single. Maybe other women will have better advice.