My privilege as a straight, white, cisgender, middle class thin male

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Also barely on topic but does anybody else think that gender identity has gone too far? There are more gender identities than I can fucking keep track of. I don't have the energy to be so sensitive to everybody's public sexual quirks.

I don't think politeness is really limited solely by your willingness to extend it to others. This is kinda a silly argument you're making here.

I don't really get your point. Of course politeness is limited on my willingness to extend it to others. That is all that it really is. I'm not willing to be sensitive to people's made up gender identities, more of which magically crop up everyday. I find it to be stupid. If someone tells me they are bicisflogendered, I will probably just ignore it and make fun of them later. Luckily online you can just make fun of it right away, because it's dumb.