(December 30, 2014 at 9:22 pm)JesusChristLover Wrote: My wife keeps sucking the life out of me. I forgot to wish her Happy Birthday and she went all nuts, to the point of going for a night out with another man (who is apparently just a friend).
Just a few weeks ago, she went on full rage because I forgot to book tickets for a movie.
All this drama started a few months ago when I left for a week's vacation to New Zealand with my buddies.
What should I do?
*PS: She is not cheating with me - that I am fully convinced.
If you think your marriage is in serious trouble and you want to save it, you might want to consider couples counseling. In the meantime, show her you care. She probably feels neglected or blown off, which doesn't excuse her behavior, but maybe it will help you understand why she's behaving that way.
You went off somewhere with your buddies. Go off somewhere with her. You forgot to wish her a happy birthday, nail the anniversary. You forgot to book tickets for a movie, take her to a chick flick. In the meantime, make an effort to be better about remembering things that matter to her.
You know her better than any of us, so adjust the above for her personality (don't surprise her if she doesn't like surprises, for instance).
I'm not anti-Christian. I'm anti-stupid.
