She Keeps Sucking The Life Out of Me

[Godscreated]

My wife keeps sucking the life out of me. I forgot to wish her Happy Birthday and she went all nuts, to the point of going for a night out with another man (who is apparently just a friend).

Just a few weeks ago, she went on full rage because I forgot to book tickets for a movie.

All this drama started a few months ago when I left for a week's vacation to New Zealand with my buddies.

What should I do?

*PS: She is not cheating with me - that I am fully convinced.

You've received some good advice here and some of it can be thrown in the trash and I believe everyone here knows what I'm referring to.

First of all how old are you and how long have you been married, these are things that would help us better understand your situation without prying.

In general you need to set down and talk to her with seriousness, but the very first thing you need to do is apologize, you messed-up, it's up to you to get the ball rolling. You both need to want this to work, if you don't there is trouble ahead. If things go good in your conversations, you should send her some flowers, don't be cheap, you took an expensive vacation, spend money on some beautiful roses or her favorite flowers, make sure there's a card from you when the flowers are sent. Yes I mean have them delivered, she will appreciate the extra thought and it will giver her time to think about what you write in the card, before you get home. If she works make sure you send them there, a lady likes for her friends to see she is special. If you forget your anniversary you are in trouble, do not get behind that 8 ball. Make the anniversary very special, she's not going to forget what you did very soon, this one is from experience.
Here's the real deal for you, the very first thing you have to do is evaluate how you feel about her, if she's not the most important part of your life then you have a problem and need to decide what you need to do, make sure in your own heart you married her because you love her, to many marry because they lust for each other, that want make a marriage work, in the end it's all about give and take from both of you. However at this time it's about you giving, she's mad because you have left her out and I do not blame her. I'm not even going to suggest the God part of your marriage, you know how that is to be, you are to lover her as Christ loves the church. Remember love is a powerful emotion for humans and people react differently when in love, you have to be understanding to her needs, if you do not you'll be doing all the house work if you get my meaning.

GC