My privilege as a straight, white, cisgender, middle class thin male

[Dystopia]

So what? The point about white being default is not the most relevant to prove being white is not hard as some might put it... Your experience or mine are completely irrelevant, when the majority of the population is white, chances are that being white is seen as default and the first thing people notice about you is not your race, unlike what happens with people of colour - In fact, if I meet a black guy the first thing I notice is that he is black, so I am not guilt free.

And the majority of the population in America is white despite the existence of many immigrants and people with different ethnic roots. Considering the average white person makes more money than a person of colour, it's probable that you'll live in a middle class urban area and therefore will be seen as default - And that blacks or latinos will make less and live in poor neighbourhoods - Not your case, I know, but it doesn't take away the general rule.

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1) I am white I've been with black girls, and eastern girls who have both said they have a thing for white guys and wouldn't date their own race. So it's not a privilege if this also happens to white people.

But they don't have sexual stereotypes about white people as much as we have about other races.
The amount of times people of different races are fetishized is prevalent compared to white people - This isn't about race only, but stereotypes regarding race sexuality and sexual traits - For instance black women have the stereotype of being hypersexual and always wanting big dicks, asian women are seen as fragile and submissive, latinas always have big butts, and so on - White girls don't have a specific stereotype attributed to them when it comes to sexuality, they're just girls who like sex. The same applies to men - Black men always have BBC's and want pussy all the time, asian men have small dicks and are perverts, and so on - These are racial stereotypes regarding sexuality and they exist, for whites there is no prevalent sex stereotype other than "we enjoy sex" - Those stereotypes are also the reason people sometimes decide to date those races - I want to date a black girl because she must love getting pounded all the time, I want to date an asian girl because she'll like being submissive in bed - Do I need to continue?

2) I imagine a lot of black guys don't see it as a negative thing, I can't imagine going up to a crying black guy and saying "Hey what's the matter buddy" and him saying " I've just found out all the massive amounts of pussy I've been getting is because girls have objectified my race".
I even remember seeing an interview of a black guy who was around in the 70s in england and he was saying he felt like a movie star being black in the night clubs at that time because of the girls he was getting.
So again it's not a privilege if you want to be objectified, if it helps you get lots of sex.

The fact it brings benefits doesn't erase the negative aspect of it, even the most terrible things can bring benefits.

3)There's porn out there of every race, with mixtures of every race, petite asians, blonde swedish girls, brazilian butts, you name it and it's there. In cuckhold porn white guys or asian guys are often objectified and used as the guys with small dicks who have their wives taken off them by black guys.
There's no advantage in being white here because porn exists out there of all races.

I know this, but why isn't there a white category and white porn has a diverse list of films - From submissive to dominant, from blond to redhead and so on - And there's categories for "ebony, asian, latina.." which normally are based on stereotypes (i.e. Black women in porn are usually get chicks who always say they want some big black cock - I've watched a lot of porn; asian girls are always submissive and yelling at a low volume - I'll admit I like these) - If you want white porn, you'll just type a regular category, if you want black, you have to search for "black/ebony" - Also, why is it that in every porn video with, for instance, a black woman there's always "black getting pounded etc etc" in the title but for white chicks it's only "girl getting fucked bla bla bla" - Could you answer these questions and debate this?

4) Just because a girl says she has a thing for black girls doesn't mean she doesn't appreciate a good personality, it's probable and I'd say highly likely that she still wouldn't date a black guy who she didn't get along with personality wise.

There are many people who date races because of the stereotypes I've talked about - Heck a female friend of mine dated a black guy just because she wanted to see his cock - Not saying it's not good, but usually dating when looking for a relationship shouldn't be based on these stereotypes, don't you think?

Again even if the girl is just dating a guy purely because he is black it's a matter of perspective as to if the guy is at a disadvantage or advantage because of this.
A lot of rich guys don't see it as a disadvantage that they get good looking women just because they are rich, Larry David jokes about this in an interview it's pretty funny.
Additionally this pretty much happened to me, a middle eastern Muslim girl used to date me on a regular basis, I'm almost certain it was a turn on for her because her parents didn't like white people or non muslims, and ontop of using me for that I think she also tried to use me to get her ex boyfriend jealous.
I wasn't unprivileged because of this, had a lot of great kinky sex, a great time, she loved it, no one went away crying because of the hardship of being so underprivileged that our race had just been objectified.

You can have lots of advantages with that. I'm just addressing the problem of fetishism and sexual prejudices made about certain races. I'm not saying they can't bring benefits, but they don't out-stand the disadvantages of porn sites hosting a site with videos perpetuating stereotypes about your ethnicity's supposed sexuality or people dating you only because you're of a certain race because there's stereotypes attributed to it and it looks exotic because of that.