My privilege as a straight, white, cisgender, middle class thin male

[Dystopia]

And what are the disadvantages and problems that black people face by being objectified? That only black people face that you have the privilege of not facing because you're white.

- Objectification is not good because it reduces by definition people to objects to an extent
- All of those advantages are sexual, and it fades away when the only reason a guy dates an asian women is because he thinks she'll be a good submissive housewife, or a black woman because he thinks she'll never refuse sex, or when a woman dates a black man and gets surprised that he doesn't want sex all the time and doesn't have a huge BBC (this could hurt the man because he doesn't fit the stereotype and might want a meaningful relationship). It's two sides of the same coin, and I think attractiveness to race without assigning stereotypes like those would be better and healthier.

Wrong. I can probably provide around 10 videos in about a minute of asian dominatrix women.

I've seen those (laugh...) - But BDSM is a specific type of fetishism porn about domination and submission - It's not the most common mainstream straight couple fucking people - Please search for videos with any dominant asian women in a regular sexual intercourse with an asian man sex scene, and compare to the absurd number of videos with asian male perverts having sex with moaning asian schoolgirls - I've watched these categories, all of them, if there's something I can talk about fully it's porn and I know how it works.

I don't think dating should be based around the sole purpose of a girl wanting to see a guys cock in general whether it's race related or not, but if you're a man who wants sex with women, women wanting to see your cock is a benefit in most circumstances. It's at least a good spring board to get started from.

Yes but what if I want a relationship with love and meaningful emotions? again two sides of the same coin. What if I don't like that stereotype because my cock is average and I feel bad about it?...

We really don't need to go back and forth on these arguments much and go at it paragraph after paragraph discussing different perspectives, the bottom line is just that you're sweeping generalized statements are just wrong, because they are so generalized.

I'm opinionated by definition but that's just who I am, apologies if I may sound rude sometimes. Generalized statements are meant to define something without putting away exceptions - When I say "X works like Y" I don't mean sometimes "X works like Z" can't be a valid proposition, but the general rule isn't invalidated by exceptions. The fact that fetishism and sexual stereotypes about other races exist is true and I've been hearing them since I was a child, I remember hearing my grandma saying that black girls have this thing that brings them to fuck men all the time without being able to stop... Honestly, it doesn't take a genius to perceive sexual stereotypes about ethnicity and the fact there are no prevalent stereotypes about whites, generally whites have average size cock/vagina and enjoy sex, that's all - Whereas when you tell me other kind of porn I imagine a stereotyped scenario - I.E. If you say "ebony porn" I imagine a ghetto chick with gigantic boobs and ass fucking a pimp with a BBC - If you say "white porn" I can imagine a redhead, a brunette, large or thin, doing various kind of stuff but without any stereotypical scene in mind since there's no stereotype towards white people's sexuality (if there was I'd probably know since I'm white)

I don't know if you do it by accident or not but you tend make statements about large vast topics in a very specific opinionated way.
Like the asians in porn are always submissive. Asians are in a LOT of porn, and they are in a LOT, and I mean a LOTTTTT of dominatrix porn.

Yes I know - But I've already addressed that BDSM is not a common type of porn and follows a very different method to please the audience - BDSM as an example of mainstream porn is not reliable since it only focuses on people that like BDSM, whereas mainstream videos are more generic. In fact if there's a style of porn that doesn't have stereotypes it's BDSM, I'll say that, and I like it quite a lot.

EDIT - Now that you've said that, I really hope I'm not elected as the forum's most opinionated member - Sometimes I'm not aware of how opinionated I might be.