She Keeps Sucking The Life Out of Me

[John V]

None of your links prove that being given the opportunity to cheat makes you more likely to cheat.

Prove? Maybe not, but it's a lot better than the nothing that you've given.

How can you say it doesn't just mean people who are more likely to cheat are more likely to go looking for such an opportunity?

If that's the case, shouldn't the wife be suspicious of the husband who wants to go to Vegas with single friends, as in my initial example?

I've been to a strip club. Many of the men were there with significant others and hardly any set off my creeper radar.
Maybe I went on a lucky night or maybe you're just making up bullshit because you think strip clubs are icky. Or maybe you are a creepy old douchebag and you secretly go to strip clubs and you feel so guilty that you have to go around talking about how awful they are to mask your guilt.

I quoted a magazine article on strip clubs. Either you're making things up, or you somehow found a couples strip club (please), or perhaps what you assumed to be significant others were escorts.

I just wanted to add her that going to a strip club isn't treating your wife poorly.

My wife disagrees, and says that most of her friends who are wices would disagree as well. Don't believe Rhythm's bullshit. Most wives aren't happy about their husbands going to strip clubs. Husbands know this and tend to hide it, unless they have a bachelor party as an excuse.

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Here's some interesting comments from women about their men going to strip clubs.
http://newlyweds.about.com/u/ua/lovesex/...p-Club.htm

Excerpts:
So, you have to go see a crew of naked women to be able to come home and give it to me good? WT? That's pathetic. I can understand how men totally disagree with what I'm saying, but you dont see how it can really make a woman feel like crap. It kinda hurts to know your man is going to a place where other women will be flocking around naked. Grow up.

I tell my boyfriend I have no problem with him going to a strip club. I don't want to tell him that it's not okay cause I'm not controlling. I just get really upset and cry when he's not around because I feel like my body isn't good enough.

I will not date anyone who goes to clubs or considers them OK because it will have to be something I accept. The only person taking their clothes off for him is me. Many of these private dances involve physical touching and MORE. That is physically cheating. Would you be OK if I rubbed a man's penis or kissed him? No? Ok, then you need to not go to the club. It's not a religious thing. It's an honesty and loyalty thing.

I'm glad I'm not the only one who doesn't want her husband going to "watch" strippers. He recently missed out on a co-worker's bachelor party. The stories I have heard about said party make me so angry. Strippers picking $ bills off the men's foreheads with their vagina, the men licking whipped cream off their bodies and other absolute bull. If your man tells you there's "no touching," he is lying.