(December 30, 2014 at 9:22 pm)JesusChristLover Wrote: My wife keeps sucking the life out of me. I forgot to wish her Happy Birthday and she went all nuts, to the point of going for a night out with another man (who is apparently just a friend).
Just a few weeks ago, she went on full rage because I forgot to book tickets for a movie.
All this drama started a few months ago when I left for a week's vacation to New Zealand with my buddies.
What should I do?
*PS: She is not cheating with me - that I am fully convinced.
Outside religious debate, none of us here are you, nor is this a professional marriage counselor website.
I can say that if you are having conflict resolution problems you need to get help learning how to have disagreements. It is very normal in any relationship, be it marriage, family, friend, or co worker to have conflict, how you go about it matters.
Some no nos when you disagree is name calling, bringing up the past. What you do is discuss and listen, then offer each other a solution and work to that solution. Outside that we cannot offer any advise other than if it is that serious seek a professional counselor. And no a priest and minister do not qualify as a professional.
