(January 4, 2015 at 11:44 am)Rhythm Wrote: Hey, I already waived the white flag,Yet you go and add a paragraph after I've already responded. Go figure.
Quote:IDK, maybe your parents never exposed you to any other way of managing a relationship - maybe it was easier for them (and clearly for you) to reduce the whole thing down to a sitcom punchline...and I suppose that if this is the case it's understandable to find you, a grown man - a married man, espousing the position you've espoused here.Yes, the position that a married man should spend time with his wife rather than strippers is just silly. I must've picked it up from Three's Company or something.
Quote:If I told my wife that the way I managed to -not- cheat on her had to do with avoiding temptation....I think she'd be insulted. The girl at the checkout line exists, none of us has to go to a stripclub to find temptation (and for many, there isn't any temptation there - you don't go..right?)... if fidelity is related to removing oneself from temptation then it's a wonder that any of us remain faithful at all.The girl at the checkout line has clothes on and won't give you a lap dance.