She Keeps Sucking The Life Out of Me

[John V]

The last word is for a conversation that ends.....I thought I mentioned awhile back that I wasn't interested in seeing the end of this conversation?

Cool, it's fun watching you say that marriages in which the husband goes to strip clubs are the strong loving ones, while marriages where the husband stays home with his wife are the ones headed for divorce. Brilliant!

To you, but isn't it possible that this is an expression of your own sexuality? Maybe it's checkout girls..and not strippers, that rev my engine?

Some individuals, yes, but most men get more turned on at strip clubs than at grocery stores, and again, it's easier to get a response from a stripper than a checkout girl.

So, happens to guys all the time..doesn;t seem to stop us from being "tempted". Does the prospect of humiliation make your penis retreat?

No, married men do not get shot down by the checkout girl all the time.

Coke works better...I'm always explaining this to people.

I'm sure you know.

Sure, to you. That list will be different for me. You're imagining that a strip club is the tempting place when, for me, this is simply not the case. Strippers don't hold my fidelity between their tits, rgr?

Again, there are individual differences, but for most men, a strip club is going to be more tempting. Maybe you've never noticed, but porn features naked or scantily clad women. There's a reason for that. It turns most men on. Your grocery store smock fetish is the exception.

I spend more time looking at checkout girls, personally. If I had to guess...I';d chalk it up to our relative familiarity. Strippers just don;t have the wow effect on me. They're pretty girls (mostly) - but I'm used to them...so whatever allure or temptation they may hold in your mind just doesn't exist in mine. Is that difficult for you to conceptualize? That what turns you on doesn't turn me on? That in order to maintain -my- fidelity, if it were an issue of avoidance...I'd have to avoid grocery stores, libraries, and zoos - rather than strip clubs?

Yes, I'm sure you go to strip clubs to play chess and read back copies of the Saturday Review, but most men go their because it turns them on.

Cool, and the naked bit..is that the temptation then? Is that the baited hook. They dangle their ass in front of you, and like a fish, you'd bite?

Maybe. I wouldn't be the first guy who went to a strip club with no intent to touch, but then gave in after some booze and getting the ass in the face. Most guys prefer a young ass in the face to the high school girl at the checkout.

Sounds more like you're repressed id fantasizing about how the other half lives.

It only sounds that way to you because, as you've admitted, you want to think poorly of me.

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Sorry, I know it's not fair distracting you like this.