(January 5, 2015 at 2:26 pm)Rhythm Wrote: Yep, sounds like fun with my friends. Course, none of us seems to be particularly interested in cheating on our wives? Why do you think that is?Paying money to see naked women and have them rub against you does indicate an interest in cheating on your wives. The lap dances are cheating in the opinion of many wives.
Quote:More specifically, why is it that we can actually have the girl on display without worrying about our fidelity, whereas the simple thought of it (you don't go, so it's all a fantasy) to you....seems like it might be too juicy to pass up? What is it, if you had to guess, that could account for this discrepency in how we experience our relative masculinity and sexuality?You've watered down the definition of fidelity. I hold myself to a higher standard.
Quote:(I do, btw, often find myself wondering whether or not a girl has a dayjob, what she might be like when she's not "Candy" - can't help it. Like I said, familiarity - there are alot of strip clubs where I grew up - so by default I knew alot of strippers from kindergarten. It's never who you expect, in my experience...lol. The girls up here are total ciphers though - which I guess is nice...because nothing ruins a lap dance like remembering your third grade trip to Boyd Hill, eh?)Emotional cheating too. Wow, you're a gem!
