(January 7, 2015 at 9:05 am)alpha male Wrote:(January 6, 2015 at 8:39 pm)whateverist Wrote: Personally I've always found the greatest fault lies with the people who fret over what is wrong with other people. That makes you different than me but I would never claim that what annoys me is the gold standard for assigning fault in others.The revisionist history going on here is amusing.
All that I said regarding other people is "no one's perfect," which surely isn't controversial.
I was reacting to this other bit you wrote:
alpha male Wrote:I know you guys hate (others') judgment, but that's how it is. Someone who chooses B over A has something wrong with them.
(January 7, 2015 at 9:05 am)alpha male Wrote: Then Losty came on and told what's wrong with me and/or my wife:
http://atheistforums.org/thread-30581-po...#pid833657
If your wife doesn't trust you it's something you need to work on. Either you've given her a reason not to trust you, or she has an unhealthy level of jealousy...
Funny that no one told her that my marriage is none of her business.
Well, now she's done that for you. But remember, my point had been that it is not a hobby of mine to look for everyones faults 24/7. Not having pointed that out is par for the course I'm on.
(January 7, 2015 at 11:12 am)Losty Wrote: Your marriage isn't any of my business. I am sorry if I offended you, but you implied that your wife doesn't trust you. I will take back my original statement and simply say, if your wife doesn't trust you that is none of my business.
It's funny(in a pathetic way) how you make Rhythm into a guy who pays strippers to touch his dick. I don't remember him saying he did that. I guess I must have missed that quote.
Not everyone uses traditional wedding vows, but as far as I can recall there's nothing in the traditional ones about not watching strippers.
Fidelity- faithfulness to a person, cause, or belief, demonstrated by continuing loyalty and support. (*google dictionary)
So when I get married one day I imagine that our agreement in that area will be: he won't fuck anyone else without my knowledge of it before hand, and I won't fuck anyone else without his permission. Or something like that. So he could fuck a hundred strippers and still be faithful to me, and I would still love him and be waiting at home to give him all of my love and great free sex. Perhaps it's not the kind of marriage you like but it's still a marriage and no one is cheating. Why is sex so important? I don't get it, I honestly don't. Yea I want my future husband to be responsible and std free but besides from that...I don't see where the big deal is. When I think of something I want to be mine that I don't want to share with anyone and everyone...I'm thinking of his heart, his love...not his cock.
Anywho, there's nothing wrong with having a monogamous marriage where strip clubs are only permitted at the wife's insistence and husbands are not to be trusted near available women without supervision. That's perfectly acceptable, but not required to make for a good marriage.
Again, I apologize, it's really none of my business if your wife doesn't trust you that's between you and your wife.
That's well put, Losty. You speak for me too.
