RE: She Keeps Sucking The Life Out of Me
January 7, 2015 at 12:50 pm
(This post was last modified: January 7, 2015 at 12:53 pm by John V.)
(January 7, 2015 at 11:12 am)Losty Wrote: Your marriage isn't any of my business. I am sorry if I offended you, but you implied that your wife doesn't trust you. I will take back my original statement and simply say, if your wife doesn't trust you that is none of my business.I wasn't offended. Honestly, I doubt if Rhythm's been offended by anything I say. I'm guessing he's just having a good time with it, as I am. It's you and others who are taking it so seriously.
But, I do find the hypocrisy/double standards illuminating.
Quote:It's funny(in a pathetic way) how you make Rhythm into a guy who pays strippers to touch his dick. I don't remember him saying he did that. I guess I must have missed that quote.He acknowledged getting lap dances. That's paying a girl to touch your dick, albeit through clothes.
Not everyone uses traditional wedding vows, but as far as I can recall there's nothing in the traditional ones about not watching strippers.
Quote:Fidelity- faithfulness to a person, cause, or belief, demonstrated by continuing loyalty and support. (*google dictionary)Doubtful.
So when I get married one day
![Devil Devil](https://atheistforums.org/images/smilies/devil.gif)
Quote:I imagine that our agreement in that area will be: he won't fuck anyone else without my knowledge of it before hand, and I won't fuck anyone else without his permission. Or something like that. So he could fuck a hundred strippers and still be faithful to me, and I would still love him and be waiting at home to give him all of my love and great free sex.The definition says faithfulness, in this case to a person, and doesn't say that you can be unfaithful as long as you clear it beforehand.
And if that's what you're looking for, why bother getting married?
Quote:Perhaps it's not the kind of marriage you like but it's still a marriage and no one is cheating. Why is sex so important? I don't get it, I honestly don't. Yea I want my future husband to be responsible and std free but besides from that...I don't see where the big deal is. When I think of something I want to be mine that I don't want to share with anyone and everyone...I'm thinking of his heart, his love...not his cock.Why not be faithful to each other in all ways? You presumably have the same working parts as any other woman. Unless he covets, he should be perfectly happy having sex with his wife only.
Quote:Again, I apologize, it's really none of my business if your wife doesn't trust you that's between you and your wife.LOL, nice back-handed apology.
(January 7, 2015 at 11:43 am)whateverist Wrote: Well, now she's done that for you. But remember, my point had been that it is not a hobby of mine to look for everyones faults 24/7. Not having pointed that out is par for the course I'm on.That's not my hobby either. Losty is more into it than I am. So is Rhythm, who came in disparagingly calling me (I presume, although he didn't quote me) a puritan.