She Keeps Sucking The Life Out of Me

[Losty]

Your marriage isn't any of my business. I am sorry if I offended you, but you implied that your wife doesn't trust you. I will take back my original statement and simply say, if your wife doesn't trust you that is none of my business.

I wasn't offended. Honestly, I doubt if Rhythm's been offended by anything I say. I'm guessing he's just having a good time with it, as I am. It's you and others who are taking it so seriously.

I'm taking the conversation seriously if you mean I am conveying my honest opinion.

But, I do find the hypocrisy/double standards illuminating.

It's funny(in a pathetic way) how you make Rhythm into a guy who pays strippers to touch his dick. I don't remember him saying he did that. I guess I must have missed that quote.

Not everyone uses traditional wedding vows, but as far as I can recall there's nothing in the traditional ones about not watching strippers.

He acknowledged getting lap dances. That's paying a girl to touch your dick, albeit through clothes.

Getting a lap dance is not having someone touch your dick. Not at all.

Fidelity- faithfulness to a person, cause, or belief, demonstrated by continuing loyalty and support. (*google dictionary)

So when I get married one day

Doubtful.

You doubt I'll ever get married? Why?

I imagine that our agreement in that area will be: he won't fuck anyone else without my knowledge of it before hand, and I won't fuck anyone else without his permission. Or something like that. So he could fuck a hundred strippers and still be faithful to me, and I would still love him and be waiting at home to give him all of my love and great free sex.

The definition says faithfulness, in this case to a person, and doesn't say that you can be unfaithful as long as you clear it beforehand.

And if that's what you're looking for, why bother getting married?

Faithful-loyal, constant, and steadfast. (*google dictionary)
Being faithful means being loyal, staying true to your marriage vows. Some people include sex in this, some people don't. Being faithful and maintaining fidelity in a marriage means agreeing with your spouse beforehand on your definitions and boundaries and sticking with them.

I have my own reasons for wanting to get married and they do not include a desire to have sex. I can do that without getting married.

Perhaps it's not the kind of marriage you like but it's still a marriage and no one is cheating. Why is sex so important? I don't get it, I honestly don't. Yea I want my future husband to be responsible and std free but besides from that...I don't see where the big deal is. When I think of something I want to be mine that I don't want to share with anyone and everyone...I'm thinking of his heart, his love...not his cock.

Why not be faithful to each other in all ways? You presumably have the same working parts as any other woman. Unless he covets, he should be perfectly happy having sex with his wife only.

And so what if he does covet? Perhaps he covets the neighbor and his wife, perhaps he wants to watch the neighbor fuck me while he fucks the neighbors wife. Sex is fun, if you want to keep it between you and your wife that's fine. If my future husband and I want to keep it between us and whichever std free sexies we find trustable, sexy, and fun that's also fine.

Again, I apologize, it's really none of my business if your wife doesn't trust you that's between you and your wife.

LOL, nice back-handed apology.

I honestly don't care what you do in your marriage. If you're happy, I'm glad for you. If you're not, I hope you get it worked out. That goes for everyone who isn't me. I won't feel it's my right to butt in unless someone is being abused. You try to make me out to be judgemental but I'm not. I didn't spend pages insulting your marriage or your choices within it. I made one statement to make a point. I never called you a liar about your marriage or made up blatant lies about what you do within your marriage. I said "if your wife doesn't trust you". If your wife does trust you, then that's great. Perhaps, maybe you don't trust yourself? Or maybe you just don't like strip clubs. Which is fine. Many people don't. But saying that's more Losty's thing. That's ridiculous. Anyone with half a brain can see you judging everyone who disagrees with you. And anyone who bothers to get to know me will realize that I am not a judgemental person.