RE: I wish...
August 1, 2010 at 2:31 am
(This post was last modified: August 1, 2010 at 2:31 am by TheDarkestOfAngels.)
(July 31, 2010 at 9:54 pm)chasm Wrote: Your response seems to have been guided more by emotion than logic. And as the person I am, I don't understand emotion very well, so I don't understand where you're coming from.Your statements regarding your parents aren't logical in and of themselves and thus didn't seem to require a logical answer. Clearly you care enough about your parents to care about the effect they have on you otherwise you wouldn't have started this thread because there is no cold, calculating method of a proper response to how to go about treating your parents based on your dislike of their involvement in your life.
Since you are human you understand emotion whether you conciously acknowledge it or not. Being apatheic, bitter, or enfuriated doesn't make you emotionally dead.
(July 31, 2010 at 9:54 pm)chasm Wrote: If you have read my post carefully, I said I wish death on no one, and just want them to leave me alone. That being said, they won't, and I can't get a restraining order on them because they haven't done anything to harm me.
Then move away from them. Don't tell anyone that you're moving away and give no warning to anyone that you even have plans on moving away and when you do, move to the other side of the country or at least a different but nearby county if you still have people you don't want to move away from.
Legally change your name if you have to once you reach your destination and start a new life. Just keep a select control group of individuals 'in the know' if you want to keep them in your life but keep the others out.
This way, the likelyhood of them ever finding you again will be very slim.
