Welcome unno, your story is very interesting thank you
You're right, people seem to have real trouble dealing with the unknown, so prefer to have a one-size-fits-all answer to everything, even if blatantly doesn't actually address the questions. However I think things are slowly getting better, in several countries anyhow.

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