RE: Atheists only vote please: Do absolute MORAL truths exist? Is Rape ALWAYS "wr...
February 20, 2015 at 5:03 pm
(February 20, 2015 at 4:54 pm)Sterben Wrote: Yes I am aware of the definition of "Rape", and if you look at from a fantasy prescriptive. There are people who are aroused on by the actions of a forced sexual encounter. Now, if the woman or man is hinting that they don't want to be involved, but at the same time hinting that they do want it go on. Is that a rape fantasy that is popular?
Here's the thing: even people with rape fantasies, by and large, don't want what actual rape is. The turn on is the loss of control, but it is still a fantasy, and the moment it stops being a part of their fantasy and starts being something they genuinely don't want, they'd like an emergency brake. You can trust me on this, I've indulged more than a few women in their rape fantasies, and talked to many more than that about them.
There is a difference between rape, and consensual non-consent: the latter allows the fantasist to enjoy their fantasy in a controlled environment with clearly defined limitations to keep it sexy for them, whereas actual rape is... actual rape, with no concern for the victim whatsoever.
By definition, nobody actually wants to be raped. They literally can't: the moment they consent to it it's no longer rape. But that doesn't mean that certain aspects of rape can't be arousing to people.
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