It's not about "choosing" to be gay. Sexuality is a sliding spectrum. I mostly prefer men. I prefer some women. I suspect much of this has to do with my attraction towards people's personalities, because I prefer dominant ones. I don't "choose" who I'm attracted to. Believe me, I *still* don't see how Ben Affleck managed to be a heart throb.
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