Being gay is a fetish.

[Esquilax]

Honestly, how can you choose to be gay?

Simple. You A. say fuck off to all the Western societal norms and B. just cuddle up with someone of the same sex and see what happens.

So are you attracted to men, Pol? I'm seriously asking, it's kinda hard to have this conversation without knowing what happens there from your perspective. See, I'm a bi man, and even I don't get to select which sex I'm more attracted to; I'm stuck being attracted to women on a more consistent basis than I am attracted to men, so when I hear someone else say that it's a literal, conscious choice they make, that's well beyond everything I've experienced and talked about with others, and I know people from every end of the sexual and gender spectrum.