(April 19, 2015 at 9:43 pm)rexbeccarox Wrote: I think I understood what you were trying to say. I'm also bi, but I live as if I were straight. I've molded myself into only dating men, even though I am still very attracted to women. It's just easier that way. I think because it's a spectrum, people who are toward the middle of the line sort of do have their choice in the matter; at least as far as acting on it goes.How do you determine where the cutoffs are that indicate someone is hetero or homo, rather than bi? Seems like it would be arbitrary.
Quote:I do, however, find it disgusting when people spout, "homosexuality is a choice!" as if, if true, it should have any bearing on whether consenting adults can carry on a relationship together in whatever capacity works for them.If true that homosexuality is a choice, would you agree that the racial civil rights movement is a poor analogy for the gay rights movement? It's not like black people can choose to be white.