(April 21, 2015 at 12:23 pm)Judi Lynn Wrote:(April 21, 2015 at 11:59 am)paulpablo Wrote: Well you're basically saying we have no idea who she is or where she is from but that doesn't excuse him slut shaming her.
1) I don't see how he can be shaming a person who nobody knows, on the radio if a celebrity talks about another celebrity and they don't want to shame them they usually say something like "I won't say the guys name." I don't see how it's shaming if no one knows her. She won't feel ashamed if she finds these things on the forum because either she did them and she knows she did them or he's lying about it, in which case she still has no reason to be ashamed because no one knows on here that he's talking about her and she didn't do them anyway.
2) There was no shaming language used to begin with, he just listed the things she did. He has an issue with these specific things but he didn't say these things are horrible, slutty, dirty or anything like that.
I'm not interested in arguing with you over the semantics of how the OP was written.
Bottom line: He disrespected his girlfriend not once but twice in two different forums. Whether or not he said her name or where they lived is not the issue. He posted personal, intimate information that she shared with him, on a public forum for others to critique. Clearly he has issues and should probably seek some sort of professional help if he has these sort of deep seeded issues over his girlfriend's past. He brought it here and to TTA seeking out opinions and when he didn't get the advice/opinions that he wanted, he insulted the intelligence of those who responded.
I don't see how disagreeing with someones lifestyle and talking about it on a forum is being disrespectful.
If an atheist on this website posted that they were in a relationship with a Muslim and they didn't realize at first how serious they were about being a Muslim and their religion in general would you complain and call them islamophobic and be outraged over their disrespect of their Muslim boyfriend?
I have a friend who's mother cheated on her husband with the husbands brother. Also the persons actual brother has had multiple stripper girlfriends and STDs. It doesn't matter that I'm giving you this info because you don't know me, you don't know my friend, it just simply doesn't matter.
I could type down 4 random numbers and they will probably be someones bank card pin details and so again I'll be giving you private information about someone you don't know but it effects no one.
Are you ready for the fire? We are firemen. WE ARE FIREMEN! The heat doesn’t bother us. We live in the heat. We train in the heat. It tells us that we’re ready, we’re at home, we’re where we’re supposed to be. Flames don’t intimidate us. What do we do? We control the flame. We control them. We move the flames where we want to. And then we extinguish them.
Impersonation is treason.
