(September 19, 2010 at 4:35 pm)Watson Wrote: Ouch. Your situation is actually a lot longer and a lot more painful, I think, than mine is. Still, wounds of the heart are always the worst. hehe
So what did you do, if you don't mind my asking, that helped get you through it? For me, I plan on really relying on my friends and going out and spending a lot more time on my own now that I am commitment free. lol
Ouch indeed. What helped me to get over it was to focus on all the bad sides. The commitments, the bad habits and such and I felt less attracted to her. The next step was to remove all pictures of her and keep myself busy doing other things which helped in keeping her out of my mind. Soon I found myself forgetting all about it. Weeks would pass and she wouldn't of entered my mind, not even once.
Could work for you but, don't try too hard to forget. Makes it harder.

Keep yourself busy, something fun and such. You'll soon notice that you've gone hours, even days without thinking about her. keep your mind busy. It gets easier as time passes.
Extraordinary claims require extraordinary evidence - Carl Sagan
Mankind's intelligence walks hand in hand with it's stupidity.
Being an atheist says nothing about your overall intelligence, it just means you don't believe in god. Atheists can be as bright as any scientist and as stupid as any creationist.
You never really know just how stupid someone is, until you've argued with them.
Mankind's intelligence walks hand in hand with it's stupidity.
Being an atheist says nothing about your overall intelligence, it just means you don't believe in god. Atheists can be as bright as any scientist and as stupid as any creationist.
You never really know just how stupid someone is, until you've argued with them.