I agree in keeping your mind occupied and your life filled with something else. I also agree that dragging out the process, if you've found peace with your decision is more detrimental. If you loved her but hated some things about her, celebrate the good when you do dwell on that, and realize it helped you be who you are. Just realize that the bad in someone, or the one sided sacrifice for someone in our lives isn't healthy. Take the good for the good and the bad for good riddance, IMO.
"There ought to be a term that would designate those who actually follow the teachings of Jesus, since the word 'Christian' has been largely divorced from those teachings, and so polluted by fundamentalists that it has come to connote their polar opposite: intolerance, vindictive hatred, and bigotry." -- Philip Stater, Huffington Post
always working on cleaning my windows- me regarding Johari
always working on cleaning my windows- me regarding Johari
