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Oh my heart....
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RE: Oh my heart....
(June 22, 2015 at 8:50 pm)Catholic_Lady Wrote:
(June 22, 2015 at 8:26 pm)rexbeccarox Wrote: I get all messed up even when watching fictional TV shows and movies.  When I see a horse fall on it's side, I cry every time.  Once, I saw a squirrel crawling across the road; half of it had been run over by a car (this was years ago, and I'm getting choked up thinking about it), so I called an animal rescue and stayed with it until they came.  Another time, I came across a seagull that had been hit by a car, caught it in a wine box (luckily there was a liquor next door), and drove an hour to meet a seagull rescue lady.  I asked her to keep me posted, but she said she was just going to put Stanley (I named him Stanley) down.  I cried for two days.

I don't know why, but I'm not the same with people.  Sure, I have empathy, and I'm sad when people are suffering; I just don't have the gut-wrenching mortification that happens deep down that I do for animals.

I'm the same way, and I have a theory for this.

I think it's because I see humans as being on the top of the food chain, and animals as being weaker. It's like seeing a child suffer verses an adult suffer. They're both horrible, but seeing it happen to a child seems all the more sad because children are weaker, more defenseless, and more innocent than a fully grown person. I feel like we have a certain instinctive duty to protect those weaker than us, and to me, animals fall into that category.

My thinking is similar, but I don't think it's because animals are "weaker", necessarily, rather that is' just hard to communicate with animals. I can ask a person, "what hurts?" With an animal, it's way harder; same with children: their communication skills aren't honed. Some of it has to do with weakness too though, for sure.
Nolite te bastardes carborundorum.
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Oh my heart.... - by Catholic_Lady - June 22, 2015 at 4:12 pm
RE: Oh my heart.... - by Crossless1 - June 22, 2015 at 4:20 pm
RE: Oh my heart.... - by Longhorn - June 22, 2015 at 4:28 pm
RE: Oh my heart.... - by BrianSoddingBoru4 - June 22, 2015 at 4:33 pm
RE: Oh my heart.... - by abaris - June 22, 2015 at 4:49 pm
RE: Oh my heart.... - by Catholic_Lady - June 22, 2015 at 5:02 pm
RE: Oh my heart.... - by Minimalist - July 10, 2015 at 12:33 pm
RE: Oh my heart.... - by Catholic_Lady - July 10, 2015 at 12:44 pm
RE: Oh my heart.... - by Brakeman - June 22, 2015 at 6:32 pm
RE: Oh my heart.... - by Metis - June 22, 2015 at 6:39 pm
RE: Oh my heart.... - by Metis - June 22, 2015 at 4:51 pm
RE: Oh my heart.... - by Aroura - June 22, 2015 at 5:04 pm
RE: Oh my heart.... - by Catholic_Lady - June 22, 2015 at 5:06 pm
RE: Oh my heart.... - by abaris - June 22, 2015 at 5:09 pm
RE: Oh my heart.... - by The Valkyrie - June 22, 2015 at 5:12 pm
RE: Oh my heart.... - by BrianSoddingBoru4 - June 22, 2015 at 5:17 pm
RE: Oh my heart.... - by Anomalocaris - June 22, 2015 at 5:35 pm
RE: Oh my heart.... - by Alex K - June 22, 2015 at 5:24 pm
RE: Oh my heart.... - by Anomalocaris - June 22, 2015 at 5:29 pm
RE: Oh my heart.... - by Alex K - June 22, 2015 at 5:41 pm
RE: Oh my heart.... - by Little lunch - June 22, 2015 at 5:26 pm
RE: Oh my heart.... - by brewer - June 22, 2015 at 5:45 pm
RE: Oh my heart.... - by Catholic_Lady - June 22, 2015 at 8:42 pm
RE: Oh my heart.... - by SteelCurtain - June 22, 2015 at 6:23 pm
RE: Oh my heart.... - by Jenny A - June 22, 2015 at 7:29 pm
RE: Oh my heart.... - by Whateverist - June 22, 2015 at 7:58 pm
RE: Oh my heart.... - by Jenny A - June 22, 2015 at 8:02 pm
RE: Oh my heart.... - by Metis - June 22, 2015 at 8:04 pm
RE: Oh my heart.... - by Exian - June 22, 2015 at 8:09 pm
RE: Oh my heart.... - by Whateverist - June 22, 2015 at 8:11 pm
RE: Oh my heart.... - by rexbeccarox - June 22, 2015 at 8:26 pm
RE: Oh my heart.... - by Catholic_Lady - June 22, 2015 at 8:50 pm
RE: Oh my heart.... - by rexbeccarox - June 22, 2015 at 8:58 pm
RE: Oh my heart.... - by Catholic_Lady - June 22, 2015 at 9:10 pm
RE: Oh my heart.... - by JuliaL - June 22, 2015 at 8:31 pm
RE: Oh my heart.... - by Jenny A - June 22, 2015 at 8:42 pm
RE: Oh my heart.... - by Whateverist - June 22, 2015 at 8:49 pm
Oh my heart.... - by KUSA - June 22, 2015 at 10:17 pm
RE: Oh my heart.... - by The Valkyrie - June 22, 2015 at 10:32 pm
RE: Oh my heart.... - by Ravenshire - June 22, 2015 at 10:40 pm
RE: Oh my heart.... - by AFTT47 - June 22, 2015 at 10:58 pm
RE: Oh my heart.... - by Catholic_Lady - June 22, 2015 at 11:03 pm
RE: Oh my heart.... - by The Valkyrie - June 22, 2015 at 11:46 pm
RE: Oh my heart.... - by Whateverist - June 22, 2015 at 11:50 pm
RE: Oh my heart.... - by abaris - June 24, 2015 at 6:46 am
RE: Oh my heart.... - by robvalue - June 23, 2015 at 12:21 pm
RE: Oh my heart.... - by Nope - June 23, 2015 at 12:45 pm
RE: Oh my heart.... - by robvalue - June 23, 2015 at 3:23 pm
RE: Oh my heart.... - by rexbeccarox - June 23, 2015 at 3:39 pm
RE: Oh my heart.... - by The Valkyrie - June 23, 2015 at 4:01 pm
RE: Oh my heart.... - by Alex K - June 24, 2015 at 6:55 am
RE: Oh my heart.... - by rexbeccarox - June 23, 2015 at 4:23 pm
RE: Oh my heart.... - by robvalue - June 24, 2015 at 2:47 am
RE: Oh my heart.... - by robvalue - June 24, 2015 at 8:24 am
RE: Oh my heart.... - by Mudhammam - June 24, 2015 at 8:39 am
RE: Oh my heart.... - by SteelCurtain - June 24, 2015 at 9:44 am
RE: Oh my heart.... - by rado84 - July 10, 2015 at 12:12 pm

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