(July 6, 2015 at 3:36 pm)Rev. Rye Wrote: I'm not. Admittedly, I spent my high school years in a parochial boy's only school, and a lot of the boys flirted with me. I did not enjoy it. I estimate that of my 200-strong graduating class, about half of them made a pass at me at some point. Sadly, when I declined them, quite a few did not simply stop, with a few going so far as groping me and even one incident where a student grabbed me from behind and dry-humped me against my will. Of course, since we were both clothed when he did it (and he couldn't be bothered to pull my clothes away), I'm not sure if it technically counts as rape.
Still, I'm well aware that most gay people will at least know not to keep at it when flirting with a straight person, and likely a lot of what I had to go through was closer to prison sexuality than regular gay people, but it still brings up bad times for me.
Your experience had little to do with attraction. The bullies wanted to humiliate, degrade and have power over you. Unfortunately, although sex is wonderful, it can also be used as a weapon to hurt people. I am sorry that you experienced that.
I would be highly flattered and surprised if another woman came on to me but I have also had crushes on women. If she was willing to let my husband watch, I might consider her proposition. Of course, adding a third person into a successful marriage may or may not be disastrous and I don't know if I would want to take that risk.
By the way, Stimbo, I have seen the video of you in the thread on accents. You are a very nice looking man with a lovely accent. Don't underrate yourself.
